Oral Sex Orgasms
Peter James

With more than half the year gone I'd like to know how many of us have achieved an absolutely mind blowing orgasm or helped their partner achieve one. Did you know that more than 30% of women in the world cannot experience an orgasm? It made me wonder what an orgasm like this would be like until I experienced one myself and it wasn't until 7 years ago that I first realized what I had been missing out on for all these years. For many women the best way of achieving a wild orgasm where your body seems to explode all the way from your toes to your clit and the most consistent way is through oral sex.

I am going on what I have learnt over 4 years as a working girl seeing men and women on a daily basis and am prepared to share a technique that a lot of men have tried on their partners… If a partner knows how to give outstanding oral sex then a woman will reach an orgasm majority of the time…

My partner certainly knows how to play with my little button and he sure knows how to make my bells ring… so guys help your partners experience this wonderful sensation that I enjoy so much…

Hmmm I can see some of you looking at your partners and asking that question, “How can I give you what she's having?”

It reminds me of the shampoo commercial with Meg Ryan in it, “Oh yesss!!! Yes!!! Yes!!!!” “I'll have what she's having”…

Ok guys lets get down to some real fun with your partner.

There are many different ways to give oral to your partner and all I can say is, the best way is the way you and your partner feel most comfortable with.

Both you and your partner should be in a comfortable and relaxed position and ladies YOU NEED to tell your partner what you want him to do!!!! Enjoying and pleasing is a team effort so to speak, enjoy sex at it's best for both of you, not just one of you.

Foreplay can be fun if you let your bodies relax and enjoy the sensual touching that can be experienced either in or out of bed. Sexual encounters do not have to take place in bed or they can take place anywhere that you feel comfortable.

I like lying near a roaring fire on a sheepskin wool rug in winter, watching a XXX video and sipping on a glass of wine. In the kitchen is good too, but just remember to have a wide enough bench top and remove sharp knives in case of a slip-up of some sort…. Showering with a friend can also be exciting, but sometimes, oral services can get water logged.

Ok, back to guys giving oral to their partner…

Here is an excerpt from a story I once wrote:

“I want you to suck my clit and lick my pussy… that's right, I want you to kneel between my legs and use your tongue, tickle my clit, lick my pussy juice. I want you to fuck my cunt with your tongue.

My legs are open for you cause I am as horny as hell and my juices want to flow as you bring me to a mind-blowing orgasm.

Oh yes, that is so nice, tease my pussy, flick my clit softly, don't point your tongue, use the flat part of your tongue to lick me. My pussy loves to be licked, I want to feel you caress my pussy with your hot tongue, make it tingle all over…

With your head between my thighs, my pussy is hot as you lick, tasting my juices one more time. Sliding one finger into my twat, you tickle my g-spot, playing with a sensitive area that makes me have wild orgasms. I love it Steve and I don't want you to stop… push two fingers into my hole now and fuck me hard with them as you lick my clit… Oh Steve, I'm Cumming now!!! Fuck me harder!! That's it, harder, suck on my clit … oh yes ahhhhhh”

Hmmm, I love reading this part of the story…

However, there are parts of this story that you should pay attention to.
1. Use the flat of your tongue - really going to town and sucking on a girl's clit may sound exciting to some men, but I have found that it can also turn a girl off with the continual sucking.

Ok to help you guys along a bit about how this may feel to a lady… Think about how the head of your cock feels just after you have ejaculated… sensitive right? Yep, well going on my experience that is what it feels like to have your clit sucked over and over. On that note some ladies may enjoy it, so really it is individually based on what your partner's sense of arousal and the sensations that this may cause. Hope this makes sense…

2. Listen to her - if she tells you to fuck her pussy with your tongue, then do it, follow her lead but at the same time experiment, use your fingers to please and tease at the same time, if she likes toys, use them gently unless she tells you to fuck her harder and harder with them…

3. Ladies, tell your man what you want, don't be afraid to open up and tell him your needs.

Above all else, relax and enjoy your sexual experiences together. If you can't relax your mind-blowing orgasm may not happen… so please ladies take my advice, relax and you will enjoy… focus on a point that is most sensitive and let it happen for you….

On that note, I hope you all give it a go and enjoy the oral experience that we all desire. Mind-blowing orgasms are wild and fantastic; foreplay with out intercourse can be a wonderful way to play.

Please remember that I am not a Sex Therapist, but I am a sex worker who learns so much from her clients, male and female and of course the couples I see.